Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

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Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-03-2018, 05:45 PM

 

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Originally Posted by 23NYC

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

We will read the lease.

My friend was in a similar situation and his building was cool about it but they ended up moving out when they had a baby

On top of that contact management to see if they are cool with it.

I don't know if your situation is explicitly spelled out in your lease.

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-03-2018, 06:04 PM

 

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Originally Posted by Henna

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

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Whether you can live with your significant other comes down to which housing program you are applying under. “Depending on the program,” says a spokeswoman for the Dept. of Housing Preservation and Development, “recertification [of income] may be required on an annual basis. If it is determined that the applicant did not properly disclose additional household members for the purposes of qualifying, that could be grounds for eviction.

“Since income limits are based on household size and the combined income of the household, all household members must be considered when determining eligibility. If an individual applicant is only eligible on the individual’s income, adding an additional person and income to the apartment would make the apartment out of compliance with the program.”

https://streeteasy.com/blog/can-my-b...nt-girlfriend/

This is what I was trying to tell the OP. Sometimes they ask for those income documents at years end to make sure the occupant still qualifies. Things can go south if their combined income puts them outside of what qualified him for the apartment. It could be anything from a surcharge to eviction depending on management.

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Originally Posted by Principle Lewis

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

This is the only reason people get married in NYC.

That and having somebody to wactch Netflix with.

LOL!

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Originally Posted by livingsinglenyc

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

I'll keep my own apartment and watch netflix solo...

I hear that. Living by yourself is the best thing ever! You never have to worry about anyone making a mess because you know its yours, no one scratching up the pots with metal utensils when they should use plastic or wood when cooking, no one nastying up the bathroom and waiting for someone else to clean it, you can bang wherever you want, whenever you want, however you want with out intrusion. And the best of all you can walk around ass naked without a care in the world once you step inside your apartment

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

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Originally Posted by BugsyPal

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Poor ba$tard, he doesn't see it coming.

First the GF "moves in", then her name is added to lease, once that happens game is over. The GF then has "rights" and he can't get rid of her without a hassle and or even then.

"But don't forget, folks
That's what you get, folks, for makin' whoopee"

Ah the good old squatting rights!!!

I had a few friends that went through the same ****. GF just flipped once they moved in, and these guys had to give up the apartment just to get away. The only thing they managed to take was a TV, video game system or a laptop. GF took the apartment, the whole bed set, Livingroom furniture, 90% of everything, even though they went 50/50 on the furniture. I had to watch these dudes start over from scratch.

It would be funny if two years from now OP BF comes on the forms asking the same question in reverse LOL!!
GF moved in but we broke up, how can I get her off the lease and keep the apt since I was the original lease holder?

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-03-2018, 06:06 PM

 

Location: New York, NY

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Originally Posted by livingsinglenyc

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

I'll keep my own apartment and watch netflix solo...

Helllll yeah!!! F that boyfriend! I'll do my own sh2t.

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 05:58 AM

 

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Originally Posted by SoullessOne

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

This is what I was trying to tell the OP. Sometimes they ask for those income documents at years end to make sure the occupant still qualifies. Things can go south if their combined income puts them outside of what qualified him for the apartment. It could be anything from a surcharge to eviction depending on management.

LOL!

I hear that. Living by yourself is the best thing ever! You never have to worry about anyone making a mess because you know its yours, no one scratching up the pots with metal utensils when they should use plastic or wood when cooking, no one nastying up the bathroom and waiting for someone else to clean it, you can bang wherever you want, whenever you want, however you want with out intrusion. And the best of all you can walk around ass naked without a care in the world once you step inside your apartment

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Ah the good old squatting rights!!!

I had a few friends that went through the same ****. GF just flipped once they moved in, and these guys had to give up the apartment just to get away. The only thing they managed to take was a TV, video game system or a laptop. GF took the apartment, the whole bed set, Livingroom furniture, 90% of everything, even though they went 50/50 on the furniture. I had to watch these dudes start over from scratch.

It would be funny if two years from now OP BF comes on the forms asking the same question in reverse LOL!!
GF moved in but we broke up, how can I get her off the lease and keep the apt since I was the original lease holder?

That's not how affordable housing works. Management can claim that they lied on the initial application with the intention of always having 2 people living in the apartment. However, the once you get an apt, you can make more money. No one will. Kick you out.

There's tons of fraud around these apt as is.

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 06:48 AM

You should see what the ASIANS are doing at House 39. Asians signs a lease for market rent and they don't want anyone from management in their apts because they are leasing out bed space for 6-8 others. 5k for 1 bed among 6-8 ? They have guests that never leave. Thats why some of good staff that was there quit.

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 08:19 AM

 

Location: Eric Forman's basement

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Regarding House 29:

First off, that's a racist comment. What difference does it make if one ethnic group is allegedly doing something?

And you HAD to CAPITALIZE it?

And you JOINED today to say this?

My advice to you is to STAY AWAY from this site unless you can be civil.

Also, suppose someone is illegally allowing other people to live in the apartment. How does this work from a practical standpoint?

How are these extra people getting into the building? There's a doorman. Does each person also need a key fob? Does the tenant ask the building management for fobs for 10 people?

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 08:28 AM

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Originally Posted by macnyc2003

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Regarding House 29:

First off, that's a racist comment. What difference does it make if one ethnic group is allegedly doing something?

And you HAD to CAPITALIZE it?

And you JOINED today to say this?

My advice to you is to STAY AWAY from this site unless you can be civil.

Also, suppose someone is illegally allowing other people to live in the apartment. How does this work from a practical standpoint?

How are these extra people getting into the building? There's a doorman. Does each person also need a key fob? Does the tenant ask the building management for fobs for 10 people?

Its not a racist comment. ITS TRUE. Thats why Victor a gentleman of a doorman quit and went to a more pretigious building. The doormens there don't bother because they can't really tell them apart because he sees so many of them. Why you need a fob to get into a apt? Now they do enforce pet rules

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 11:35 AM

 

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Originally Posted by wawaweewa

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

That's not how affordable housing works. Management can claim that they lied on the initial application with the intention of always having 2 people living in the apartment. However, the once you get an apt, you can make more money. No one will. Kick you out.

There's tons of fraud around these apt as is.

For a forum where every other thread is about affordable housing, how do people here know so little about it?

Even in buildings that require annual recertification, it's only for record keeping. They cannot kick you out.

Now yeah, if you applied as 1 person, then when you move in, there are two people, they can kick you out for that (though even with that, I'd be surprised if it ever ACTUALLY happens).. but 2.5 years later? You've got absolutely nothing to worry about. Affordable housing is not given based on the notion that your life will NEVER change. After 2.5 years, nobody will bat an eye at the idea that someone else is moving in... and there's nothing that disallows that.

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 11:52 AM

 

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You people crack me up!

Have warned against feeding trolls, but yet you all continue to set a place at the table.

OP has vanished, but five pages later you guys are still going after each other.

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
09-04-2018, 12:00 PM

 

Location: Mott Haven, New York

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Getting a taste of living alone has spoiled me so. I don't know how I can tolerate living with someone else ever again.

Guess I'm never getting married. lolol

Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing
Can my boyfriend live with me in low income housing

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