Dirty texts to send to your boyfriend in the morning

Even though being apart from a partner can feel like absolute torture, knowing how to craft the perfect sext is a hot way to keep the passionate energy between you burning bright. If you’ve never practiced sexting him, sending dirty text messages for her long-distance, or bringing dirty talk into a long-distance relationship before, coming up with sexy texts to send your long-distance partner can feel intimidating. But don’t panic! There's no need to write anything that's not authentic to who you are. According to Jessica O’Reilly, Ph.D., host of the @SexWithDrJess podcast, sexting can be anything sensual or flirty that makes you feel more connected to your partner.

"It offers a different form of being creative and describing what you might like to do together or try out, and encouraging your partner to use their imagination can be really sexy," O'Reilly previously told Elite Daily. "Sexting helps cultivate anticipation, which can intensify the physical pleasure [when] you eventually meet up in person." Here are some examples of texts that will make your lover want to buy the next ticket out to you ASAP.

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1. I was just in bed thinking about you. I'm sure you can imagine what was on my mind.

2. The only thing I want is to see you in my bed tonight.

3. Just got out of the shower and had the urge to text my bae. Still naked BTW.

4. If you were here right now, we'd be doing a lot less talking.

5. Just took some very sexy pics, I'm still not sure which one I should send you...

6. I had a dirty dream last night. Try to guess what it was about.

7. I think it's time we had a Skype date, there are some very important things you need to see ;)

8. For some reason, I keep thinking about how sexy you looked in that [button-down/dress/shirt] I love. Next time I see you, you won't be wearing it for long.

9. I want your body pressed up against mine — preferably with no clothes in between.

10.I'm counting down the days until you're back in my arms... and back in my bed.

11. I need your hands all over my body.

12. I keep staring at my favorite picture of you and can't stop thinking about kissing those lips.

13. I want you so badly. The things I would do to you are almost too scandalous to discuss via text... Almost.

14. I can’t stop looking at the pictures you sent me. You're so sexy, it hurts.

15. Wish you were here, baby. [Insert sexy pic.]

16. I want you so bad right now. I can't stop thinking about that time we [insert sexy memory here.]

17.The only silver lining of being long-distance is I literally cannot wait to see you naked again. But I guess I’ve always felt that way so nvm long distance still blows.

18. Does the time difference actually make you hotter too? Because I’ve never wanted you so badly!

19.Hello, 911, yes this is an emergency. My smokin’ hot partner is nowhere to be found and I’m extremely horny.

20. Renaming my vibrator [insert partner’s name] so I’m not so lonely when you’re not here. :)

21. The [shirt/dress/jacket] you left at my place last time smells like you and it’s turning me on rn.

22. Hey boo, you busy? Let’s meet at [insert halfway point] and bang out a quick one for old time’s sake. Jk but not really.

23. I *was* trying to sleep but then I remembered [insert sexy memory] and now I’m wide awake.

24. [Insert flirty underwear pic] Do you think this underwear looks better on or off?

25. Which part of my body do you miss the most right now?

26. What misdemeanors would you commit just to see me naked right now?

There are no rules when it comes to sexting, as long as everything is consensual. Next time you're missing your long-distance bae, don't hesitate to let them know exactly how they make you feel.

Experts

Jess O’Reilly, sexologist, Ph.D.

This article was originally published on 11.18.19

Are you wanting to catch someone’s attention? Maybe it’s the guy you have a crush on. Or maybe you just want your boyfriend to pay more attention to you. Here are 100 flirty texts that will definitely make your man text you back. Whatever effect you desire, you’ll find here, whether you want cute, flirty, spicy, or sexy.

In 2021 we use our phones more than going on dates. Most dating in this modern age begins under our fingertips as we swipe away on dating apps. But just because your first interaction with a man is through text, it doesn’t mean you can’t get your flirt on and have them pining over you.

Using text to converse with the opposite sex gives us the confidence to say what our hearts and bodies’ desire. Wouldn’t us women prefer to seem cool, collected, and mysterious through texting rather than a giggly jittery mess sitting across from a handsome hunk at a restaurant? Texting gives us the freedom to get flirty and test the areas without fearing a public rejection.

So, sit back with your phone in hand, the phone number of the man you want on your screen, and have your pick of the flirty text you want.

25 Subtle and Cute Texts For Him

Do you have a crush on a boy in your class? Maybe you’re looking for a way to get your guy best friend to make a move. If you’re too shy to tell him, here’s your opportunity to send a text that will get him thinking of you.

1. My lips hurt from smiling so much and you’re the reason for it.
2. Even by text, you make me blush.
3. I can’t wait to see you.
4. I look down at my empty hand wishing yours was in it.
5. If you want to make me smile, just text me.
6. They say dreams aren’t real so explain to me why you’re in my dreams every night.
7. If nobody’s perfect, why do you exist?
8. Can I call you? I want to hear your voice.
9. You’re so cute that I can barely think.
10. If you want to know who I have a crush on, look in a mirror.
11. If I could only take one thing to a deserted island, I’d take you.
12. I just heard a song that reminded me of you.
13. You looked handsome today.
14. Want to get some food?
15. Let’s go for a drive.
16. You always make me laugh.
17. I could stare into your eyes forever.
18. Sweet dreams xx.
19. I love popcorn. Care to share one at the movies?
20. When I see your name pop up on my phone, my heart beats faster.
21. Every time I get a notification, I hope it’s you.
22. You make me feel like the only girl in the world.
23. I lost my teddy bear. The job description is giving me cuddles. Want to apply?
24. I stole your jacket. If you want it back, come and get it.
25. The only time I cry is when you make me laugh too hard.

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25 Flirty Texts For Him

If the cute texts above are too timid for you, let’s kick it up a notch with these flirty texts.

1. You drive me wild.
2. The day before we met, I had wished upon a star, and then I met you.
3. What’s your favourite movie? Let’s watch it tonight.
4. My favourite sound is your laugh.
5. I’ve never been kissed. Want to be the first?
6. If a genie gave me a wish. I’d tell him it already came true.
7. I never believed in love at first sight but after meeting you…
8. I bought a new strawberry lipstick. Want a taste?
9. You look familiar. Oh yeah, you’re the man from my dreams.
10. My name must be Cinderella because you’re Prince Charming.
11. Want to play truth or dare? I dare you to kiss me next time we see each other.
12. What’s on your to-do list today? I think you need to add me to it.
13. If you ever want an excuse to hold me, put on a scary movie.
14. It’s not my birthday but I’m wearing my birthday suit.
15. If we took chemistry class, I think we’d get an A.
16. I don’t like running but I’d chase after you.
17. I have no patience so I’m making the first move. Want to go out?
18. I wrote a book about you. It’s called my diary.
19. You’re so hot, you make every season feel like summer.
20. I’m not a morning person but I’d wake up early to see you.
21. Tell me a secret and I’ll tell you one.
22. Want to do me a favour? You can have one in return.
23. I like your last name. Can I have it?
24. I’m thinking of a number between 1 and 10. If you guess right, we’ll make out for that many minutes.
25. What does food and sex have in common? They’ll both be on the table tonight.

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20 Romantic Texts For Him

Let’s dial it back a bit. Here are some texts for those in love. Whether you have a boyfriend or a hubby, these texts will get your partner to smile.

1. You went to work without your morning kiss and cuddles so here it is xoxoxoxo.
2. I wake up to a photo of you on my phone when I really want to wake up beside you.
3. When I close my eyes, I see you.
4. Let’s watch a romance movie and reenact our favourite scenes.
5. My favourite place is being in your arms.
6. You make every day feel like valentine’s day.
7. You’re the only one who can make me laugh when I’m having a bad day.
8. I miss you.
9. You have my heart, soul, and body.
10. Being with you is priceless.
11. If time travel existed, I’d go back to our first kiss.
12. You made me the luckiest girl in the world.
13. I never thought I could love anything more than chocolate, then I met you.
14. You’re like water. I can’t live without you.
15. I didn’t know what happiness was until I met you.
16. You understand me like no one else does.
17. Hey babe, how’s work? I’m thinking of you.
18. I’m tired but I don’t want to stop texting you.
19. Did you know you sing in your sleep? It’s the cutest thing.
20. How’s your day? Get home safe.

5 Funny & Teasing Texts For Him

Being comfortable and with a partner that has a sense of humour is perfect if teasing is your flirting language. You may get joy out of annoying your man. Send one of these texts to your partner when he’s out of the house to make him frown or laugh.

1. I wake up to your morning breath yet I still fantasise about kissing you.
2. No matter how much you annoy me, I’ll always love you.
3. Let’s play a game. Every time you say something stupid, I’ll take an item of clothing off. I think I’ll be naked in a minute.
4. I know you’re at work but I just wanted to tell you that I’m not wearing anything. Enjoy your meeting haha.
5. I’m on the toilet but thinking of you. Who said romance is dead? LOL.

15 Spicy Texts For Him

Sending a risky text to the man you like can be empowering, and having you wait with anticipation for his reply is exciting. Whether it’s a one-night stand or your friend with benefits, you can make him sweat with just a few words.

1. I have a king-sized bed but it’s missing its king.
2. I had a dream about you last night. Let’s make that dream a reality.
3. I just watched a show about vampires and it made me think of your lips on my neck.
4. I bought new underwear. Want to see?
5. I’m feeling hot. You must be close by.
6. I want you.
7. I’ve never been good at math’s, but I know the answer if you subtract our clothes. Do you want to see my work?
8. I’m going to the gym tonight… or you could come over and we can have our own workout.
9. I want to be Rapunzel. Pull-on my hair and climb into my tower.
10. I like your clothes but I think they would look even better off.
11. If you can guess the colour of my bra, you can take it off tonight.
12. I’m sorry I didn’t reply to you sooner. I was imagining you naked.
13. I shaved. Do I have to say more?
14. You’re too sexy to be real. Prove you’re real by kissing me.
15. I don’t want to feel butterflies in my belly when I can feel you instead.

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10 Super Sexy Texts For Him

Time for the adult texts.

Sometimes we like to make the heat rise slowly. But other times, we want it here and now. Sending a sexual text is a definite way to get him to reply quickly. Get your husband’s attention by sending one of these.

1. Roses are red, violets are blue, my legs are open, where are you?
2. Come home, baby. Dinner is served and it’s not the only thing you’ll be eating tonight.
3. I’m nakey and waiting.
4. How long is your lunch break? Want a quickie?
5. Let’s make a video.
6. I need you now.
7. What’s your biggest fantasy? Let’s make it happen.
8. When you come home, you’re getting a surprise.
9. Let’s both take something 💊 and see how crazy we get.
10. They say make-up sex is the best sex. Is that why you picked a fight today?

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To make a text cuter or sexier, add an emoji at the end of your text. If none of these texts work for you, even just sending a smiley face or kissy face will let him know you’re thinking of him.

Best of luck with the text of your choosing.

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