Before making an important decision, prudent managers evaluate the situations confronting them — and often fall into traps of faulty thinking. Show Researchers have identified a series of flaws in the way we think when making decisions. They are hardwired into our thinking process, so we often fail to recognize them. While we cannot entirely rid ourselves of them, we can learn to understand the traps and compensate for them. You have an edge if you can establish a personal connection with those you are negotiating with. Connect emotionally and intellectually so the other person will like and trust you. Reciprocation (http://lawofreciprocity.com/) Do something positive for someone and that person will want to reciprocate some time, some how. Reciprocation flows from Divine Law that can neither be ignored or put aside. Perhaps, the most important of these laws is the 'law of love.' Put simply, "Love is Law, Law is Love. God is Love, Love is God." This amounts to the same thing as "the gift of giving" without the "hope of reward or pay," or serving others. This 'law of love' is identified in many different ways--for example, in Wayne Baker's bestseller,"Achieving Success Through Social Capital"(Jossey-Bass), this law of love in the workplace is described as the "law of reciprocity." The law of reciprocity is not what can best be described as "transactional reciprocity." Baker says that, "Many people conceive of their business dealings as spot market exchanges--value given for value received, period. Nothing more, nothing less. This tit-for-tat mode of operation can produce success, but it doesn't invoke the power of reciprocity and so fails to yield extraordinary success." Baker explains, "The lesson is that we cannot pursue the power of reciprocity. When we try to invoke reciprocity directly, we lose sight of the reason for it: helping others. Paradoxically, it is in helping others without expecting reciprocity in return that we invoke the power of reciprocity. The path to reciprocity is indirect: reciprocity ensues from the social capital built by making contributions to others. The deliberate pursuit of reciprocity fails, just like the pursuit of happiness. Acts of contribution, big and small, build your fund of social capital, creating a vast network of reciprocity. And so those who help you may not be those you help. The help you receive may come from distant corners of your network." "One of the most potent of the weapons of influence around us is the rule for reciprocation. The rule says that we should try to repay, in kind, what another person has provided us." Robert B. Cialdini, author of "The Psychology of Persuasion" (William Morrow, 1993) Example: A request for a charitable donation that is accompanied by a gift. Anchoring From sexuality to religion, we seek balance between the unchosen realities that anchor us (race, geography, history) and choices that liberate us. Making important choices is never simple, but it can be a lot easier and more fulfilling when we pay attention to where the choice is coming from. From business to personal choices, we don't have to make choices from circumstances---like the selection process of choosing from a smorgasbord. Our life choices are best when they come from a deep understanding of who we are and what our life's work is. Becoming aware of how we perceive others and our unique identity (our intangibles of assumptions/beliefs, values, vision and guiding principles along with our signature talents) help us to make conscious choices. When considering a decision, the mind gives disproportionate weight to the first information it receives. Initial impressions, estimates or data anchor subsequent thoughts and judgments. In business, a common anchor is a past event or trend. While relying on such may lead to a reasonably accurate estimate of future numbers, it also tends to give too much weight to past events and not enough to other factors. “People estimate the values of unknown or uncertain objects or events by starting from an initial anchor value and adjusting from there. These anchors are typically based upon whatever information, relevant or irrelevant, is handy or strategic. Frequently, an anchor will inhibit individuals from negotiating rationally.” Barzerman & Neale The Antidote Anchors affect how virtually all professionals make decisions. No one can avoid their influence. But becoming aware of their dangers can reduce their impact:
Status-Quo We are predisposed to perpetuating the status quo. Deep within our psyches, we are self-protective and risk-aversive. The Antidote Don’t maintain the status quo just because it’s comfortable. Do so only when it turns out to be the best choice.
Sunk-Cost We tend to make choices in ways that justify past decisions, even when the latter no longer seems valid. We know rationally that sunk costs are irrelevant to present decisions, but they nevertheless lead to inappropriate choices. This frequently occurs when we’re unwilling, consciously or not, to admit a mistake. The Antidote
Confirming Evidence Leaders sometimes seek out information that supports their existing instinct or point of view, while avoiding information that contradicts it. This trap affects where we go to collect evidence, as well as how we interpret it. The Antidote Don’t necessarily disregard the choice to which you’re subconsciously drawn, but make sure it’s the smart one.
Framing The first step in making a decision is to frame the question. It’s also one of the most dangerous; how you frame a problem can profoundly influence your choices. Individuals tend to be risk averse to positively framed choices and risk seeking to negatively framed choices. Example: Framing a choice between two plants as “plants saved” vs. “plants lost.” The Antidote Limit adverse effects by employing the following:
Three Forecasting Traps Meteorologists and bookies have opportunities and incentives to maintain records of their forecasting abilities. The rest of us seldom have enough carefully tracked data to adequately calibrate our minds to make reasonable estimates in the face of uncertainty. This sets us up for three estimating and forecasting traps. We have a natural tendency to look for instances that confirm our story and our vision of the world--these instances are always easy to find. You take past instances that corroborate your theories and you treat them as evidence. Those who believe in the unconditional benefits of past experience should consider this pearl of wisdom allegedly voiced by a famous ship's captain: "But in my experience, I have never been in any accident...of any sort worth speaking about. I have seen but one vessel in distress in all my years at sea. I never saw a wreck and never have been wrecked nor was I ever in any predicament that threatened to end in disaster of any sort." E. J. Smith, 1907, Captain, RMS Titanic Captain Smith's ship sank in 1912 in what became the most talked about shipwreck in history.
Most of us are overconfident about our judgment abilities and prediction accuracy, as we remember our successes and quickly forget our errors. Our hubris tricks us into considering only a narrow range of possibilities. Major initiatives and investments often hinge on estimate ranges. Managers who underestimate the high end (or overestimate the low end) of a crucial variable may miss attractive opportunities or expose themselves to far greater risk than ever imagined. Example: Estimating a narrow range between the seller’s and buyer’s reservation price in a real estate negotiation.
When faced with high stakes, we tend to adjust our estimates or forecasts with prudence, “just to be on the safe side.” Too much prudence can be as dangerous as too little.
Memories of dramatic events leave strong impressions on our minds and can skew future decision-making efforts. The Antidote Take a disciplined approach to forecasting.
Recommended Reading on Behavioral Decision Making “Judgment in Managerial Decision Making” by Max Bazerman “Decision Traps” by J. Edward Russo and Paul J. H. Schoemaker “Negotiating Rationally” by Max Bazerman and Margaret A. Neale “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion” by Robert B. Cialdini “Achieving Success Through Social Capital" by Wayne Baker “The Black Swan: The Impact of Highly Improbable” by Nassim Nicholas Taleb What are examples of decisionOther common work-related scenarios where decision-making comes into play might include:. Organizing a team and assigning roles and responsibilities.. Making a go-no-go decision on a project.. Determining which strategy to use to meet company goals and how to execute it.. Creating a work-from-home policy.. What are some examples of decisionExamples of decision-making skills. Problem-solving.. Leadership.. Reasoning.. Intuition.. Teamwork.. Emotional Intelligence.. Creativity.. Time management.. What are 5 decisionDecision-Making Skills Definition
Facilitating a brainstorming session to decide on a new product feature. Choosing a candidate to give a job offer to. Collecting feedback from team members to ideate a new team workflow. Researching market trends to understand how they'll impact company strategy.
What are some examples of decisions you make every day?These might include choices about where to live; what to do; working and learning; how to spend money; and who to have friendships and relationships with.
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