Facebook only friends can see my profile

Do you want over a billion people seeing your family vacation photos?

Didn't think so.

Do you want over a billion people seeing your business page?

Absolutely!

So what's the difference? That's what you'll learn in this post (and I share a little-known tip at the end).

Facebook's 2.4 billion users make it the United Nations of social networks . . .

. . . which begs the question, "Who exactly among those 2.4 billion people sees what I'm doing on Facebook?"

If you're a business owner who has a Facebook page, here's a primer that clarifies who sees what you do on both your personal profile and your business page, and how you can control all of it, at any time.  

What follows is an infographic and a deeper discussion of each section:

Facebook only friends can see my profile

Personal Facebook Profile vs. Business Page

Your personal profile is your personal account on Facebook.  You can have only one personal account, and it's from here you invite people to be your friends.  You can have up to 5,000 friends.

You also have Privacy controls on your profile.  You control who sees your posts, photos, and when you comment on a friend's post.

Your business page is where you market your business on Facebook.  You create your business page from your personal profile, and you can have unlimited business pages (although having too many gets cumbersome to manage).

When someone clicks Like on your business page, they become a Fan, and your page has no limit to the number of Fans it can have.

You also have no privacy controls whatsoever on a business page.  That's as it should be, since you're marketing here.  It's not where you share your vacation photos!

How-To Tip:  if you are planning to use Facebook only for business and not socialize using your personal profile, you have little chance for success.  The people who use Facebook to the greatest success use it for both personal & business.  If you're not on Facebook consistently, you won't generate much interest here.

Who Sees My Personal Profile?

Everyone can see your name and headshot (called your profile photo) on Facebook.  Beyond that, you are in complete and total control of who sees your personal information.

You can:

  • make your profile completely private
  • share your profile with your friends
  • share your profile with your friends & their friends
  • customize who sees your profile

Who is a friend on Facebook?  Someone who you've invited to connect and they agreed. Or someone who invited you to become a friend and you said "Sure!"

Facebook friends receive permission to access your profile.  Your friends see your posts, your photos, and pages you like.

You can also override the privacy settings on any post as you write it using the Audience Selector.

You can also review your past posts using the Activity Log from your Timeline.  It shows you your previous posts and who you shared them with.

Anytime you need to change your Privacy, go to the Settings gear icon on the Facebook main menu, and select Privacy Settings.

Who Sees My Business Page?

Business pages don't require your permission for people to view them:  anyone can see your page.

People who Like your page are called Fans, and they will see your business posts in their NewsFeed.

The number of fans who see your posts is called Reach.  In 2020, organic Facebook reach (reach you achieve without ads) is around 6.5% for the average business page.  The more a fan engages with your posts, the more consistently they'll see your posts.

Why is reach so small?  You have limited space in your Facebook NewsFeed:  most people like 150 brands on Facebook.  If they saw posts from every brand, there would be no room for their friend's posts.

Facebook also limited your reach once it went public and needed to generate higher revenues.  So it makes sense to use Facebook ads, which done wisely, is the cheapest advertising you'll ever do.  You also get detailed metrics of who your ad reached and who clicked on it.

Also, when your fans engage with your page by liking it, commenting on it, or sharing it, their friends will see your page.  The higher your fan engagement, the higher your reach.

The best engagement, in order, is a Share, a Comment, and a Like on your posts. When a fan shares your post, their friends see the post in its entirety. When a fan comments on a post, their friends see the comment and a link to your business page.  When they like your post, their friends see that they liked the post and a link to your page.

When I Like a Post, Who Sees It?

As you're scrolling through your Facebook NewsFeed, you can click Like on a post to show you enjoyed it, agree with it, just found it hilarious, or with the new emojis you can use the angry face to disagree with something.

But who sees that interaction?

When you like a friend's post, people who are friends with both you & your friend see the post. However, if you've set your Privacy Settings to Public, then anyone can see it.

When you like a business post, your friends see it (or whomever you've identified in your Privacy settings).  When people visit that business page Timeline, they'll be able to see that you liked that post as well.

What's My Timeline?

Your Timeline is one main page all about you.  Its a collection of what you've shared on Facebook, including your:

  • friends
  • family, workplace, and other personal information you've chosen to share
  • photos
  • posts
  • pages you've liked

Your Timeline cover is the large photo that appears at the top.  Your profile photo is your headshot.

What's My NewsFeed?

Your NewsFeed is your Home page on Facebook.  Whenever you login, you're taken to your NewsFeed, which displays one long page of posts, photos, and videos from your friends and businesses you've liked.

It's also here that you'll see ads in both the NewsFeed and on the right side of the page.

Your Action Item

Action Item: Want to see your page as others do?  You can!  Go to your Timeline Cover, click on the Ellipsis on the right side, then View As.  Facebook will then let you choose to see your Timeline cover as the public does or as a specific person.

Now you have a much better grasp of what happens when you engage on Facebook, where those interactions appear, and how you can best use Facebook for both personal and business.  

Bookmark this post and the infographic so you'll have a go-to reference whenever you're wondering "who sees what I'm doing on Facebook?"

EXTRA SECURITY

How to Protect Your Data

One of the biggest issues surrounding social media today is who has access to your data. Unfortunately, apps and companies like Cambridge Analytical have used people's data in unauthorized ways.

Take this simple 10-second step to protect your data. Here's how to turn off apps from accessing it:

How to Protect Your Android Phone

If you use the Facebook Messenger app on your Android phone, you may have unknowingly allowed it to store your call, sms and contact history. Here's how to turn those permissions off:

How do I make it so only my friends can see my profile on Facebook?

Select your name from any page on Facebook to get to your profile page. Select the three-dot menu in the upper-right corner of the Friends screen and choose Edit Privacy. Select an audience next to Friends List and Following. Select the X icon to save the changes and close the window.

How do I hide my Facebook profile from non friends?

Click the "Who can look up your profile by name or contact info?" drop-down menu and select "Friends of Friends" or "Friends" to limit the people who can view your Facebook profile. This hides your profile from being visible in public searches on Facebook or from search engines like Google.